gabrielle joy gatta

Gabrielle helps individuals & couples cultivate secure, passionate, and deeply connected relationships

Awaken Your Eros:

A Journey to Deep Self-Trust, Embodied Love & Lasting Connection

I work with individuals and couples seeking to cultivate secure attachment, rekindle desire, and deepen intimacy. Through coaching, embodiment practices, and relational insights, I help you transform patterns of disconnection into passion, presence, and deep love—within yourself and your relationships.

Coming Home to Yourself & Each Other

Work With Me: Individual & Couples Coaching

You are here because something within you knows there is more depth, connection, and truth waiting to be uncovered. Whether you are navigating the complexities of your own inner world or the intricate dance of intimacy and partnership, this is an invitation to awaken.

Perhaps you have spent years achieving, performing, or seeking love and validation outside yourself—only to feel an ache that cannot be filled externally. Maybe you are in the midst of a relational struggle, longing for intimacy but feeling disconnected. Or perhaps you sense an awakening stirring within, an invitation to finally fully meet yourself and your partner.

I do not approach this work from a pedestal of mastery but from lived experience. After a decade-long partnership and the journey of conscious uncoupling, I have met both the unconscious moments of disconnection and the radical awakening that comes from turning inward. Today, my former partner and I co-parent our remarkable son with internal secure attachment as our guide and love as our ethos—not as a perfected destination but as an ongoing, unfolding commitment to truth, healing, and growth. I know what it is to unlearn, strip away the conditioned layers, and meet myself and others from a place of deep self-knowing.

Rooted in attachment theory, somatic and embodiment practices, existential and Buddhist psychology, strengths-based coaching, music and movement therapy, and the science of intimacy and relational dynamics, my work is about guiding you back home to yourself. Whether you are navigating individual self-discovery or deepening your relationship with a partner, we will uncover the unconscious scripts keeping you from the life and love you truly desire.

Through 1:1 coaching or couples coaching (2:1), we will explore:

  • How to build an internal secure attachment with yourself—the foundation of all fulfilling relationships

  • How to break free from patterns of avoidance, anxiety, or emotional disconnect

  • How to cultivate self-trust, deep presence, and embodied intimacy

  • How to shift from relational pain and disconnection into resonance and connection

  • How to awaken to the aliveness of your own erotic energy—your life force, your capacity for joy, passion, and love

Transformation is not about fixing yourself—it’s about revealing who you truly are.

This is an invitation to step into the deepest, most resonant version of yourself, to live and love from a place of true security, expansiveness, and aliveness.

Your journey home begins here. Are you ready?

 

PHILOSOPHY

"The quality of your relationships is determined by the quality of your relationship with yourself."

—Esther Perel

 
 
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AJourney Inward

1987-present

As a former national team gymnast, undefeated cross-country champion, venture capitalist, peak performance coach, and entrepreneur, I spent years mastering high performance, resilience, and achievement. But through my own journey inward, I discovered that true fulfillment—especially in love, intimacy, and relationships—does not come from external success. It emerges from within.

Now, I coach individuals and couples to cultivate deep self-trust, embodied love, and unshakable connection. My work is rooted in helping people develop an internal secure attachment, the foundation from which an erotically alive, deeply felt, and meaningful life can flourish. I guide my clients to awaken their own Eros—their creationary life-force energy—not by seeking externally but by turning inward, reclaiming themselves, and embracing their most authentic desires.

Newport, RI

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